This week's Biography is the second installment of a two-part story. Go to Part One.

Through high school I continued masturbating regularly, sometimes to excess no doubt. Until then I was uncircumcised, and I enjoyed the foreskin feeling. But after high school, for religious reasons and to be more like the other guys in the showers, I had myself circumcised (by a doctor, of course). To me, it has made no difference in the intensity or frequency of orgasm, nor how long I have to stroke to reach climax. Yes, there is a slightly different feel to masturbation, cut and uncut. No big deal to me.

Through many affairs with women and three marriages, I continued to masturbate AND have regular intercourse. One didn't interfere with the other, perhaps because I was strongly sexed and never really seemed to get enough. I had learned to like sex books (now called "adult" books) because in their exaggeration, they helped my fantasies. Through my middle 40s I was still masturbating several times a week, sometimes 2 to 4 times a day when I was "in heat." Oddly, I never shared my masturbating habit with any of my ladies, much to my regret now that I know how so many of them enjoy the same things we guys do. I still had feelings of guilt, I guess, and thought the "sugar 'n' spice" ladies wouldn't approve. Shoulda known betta, right? Right!

A few times in those years, I'd decide to quit (usually trying to get "right" with my religion). Never worked, of course. But I remember one time I had quit and was doing things like praying and cold-showering to stay away from it. Then, on a trip one day, as I drove across an overpass I looked down and saw several brightly colored books scattered on the side road below the overpass. I just knew these were porno novels, and ALL my old urges returned at once. I turned around, came back to investigate, and -- sure enough -- there were about 15 porno novels someone had tossed, probably cleaning out their car before getting back home to the spouse. That was the last of quitting. My first orgasm, after about a month of abstinence, was especially excellent. That day and the next, I must have brought myself off at least twice for each of those novels. God! It felt great to be back in business, and I've never felt guilty or tried to quit since.

After my last wife and I were divorced, I discovered adult arcades, where you could go and watch one or more sex flicks -- and in the little private room you could masturbate to your heart's content. That was something different. Then, holes began to appear in some of these private rooms, reamed out to the appropriate size and at the right height for insertion of a penis. And guys sometimes openly invited you to let them fondle your penis, or more. I did meet a couple of guys in that environment with whom I shared mutual masturbation -- one remained a friend for a long time. There was always an intense excitement when another hand stroked me.

Now, at nearly 60 with no wife, I still masturbate regularly. No longer 2 or 3 times a day, but now 3 to five 5 a week. In the morning or evening I'm now able to spend the time it takes to raise my desire level so that orgasms are more intense and delicious. I sometimes use lube (like Wet Platinum, costly at adult stores but great), and sometimes I prefer the dry, unaided hand. I've tried most possible variations, but I still have only 2 favorites: (1) regular hand grip, usually dry, and (2) the reverse grip with thumbs down, lots of lube, and letting the entire shaft and head slide through the sleeve made by the hand. Very erotic and satisfying.

Occasionally I'll use a sex toy to simulate intercourse. Most adult stores sell flexible rubber (or vinyl) penises that are hollow inside. These are made for ladies to insert vibrators into. However, I find that my erect penis fits snugly inside these. So I get an erection, lube the inside well, and slip it over my penis, expelling the air caught inside so there's a kind of vacuum grip. Then I either simulate intercourse or just masturbate. To simulate intercourse, I lie on my stomach on 1 or 2 pillows, hold the bottom pillow as if it were a woman's bottom, and pump in and out just as I would in intercourse. This usually produces the best climax because the muscles around the lower lumbar and groin are tensed and released, as in intercourse. Such movement is a big component of the best orgasms. Here, that is combined with the pressure of the bottom of the rubber penis on the highly erotic area at the base of your own penis, simulating the pressure of the mons pubis against a woman's mons veneris during intercourse. Yum.

The second way, masturbating by hand, is done by inserting myself into the well-lubed rubber penis. This not only feels great, but there's a special visual excitement, too. The rubber penises are well designed and look very real. Since you're inside it, it adds about 1/16 of an inch in every direction all around your own, and LOOKS as if you've got a bigger penis -- always something of a turn-off for me. Be careful you don't "fall in love" with the odor of rubber or vinyl, however, or condition yourself only to climax when you sense that odor. No joke, it can happen. But not to worry, just vary your style and you shouldn't have any problems.


Go to the JackinWorld Random Biography Picker

Go to the JackinWorld Biographies Index