I can't reach orgasm! What can I do about this? Some guys do have a lot of trouble reaching orgasm. Several possible reasons: (1) You may be giving up too soon. Read this passage of JackinHow-To. (2) You may have ejaculated too recently. Wait a day or two (or longer) and try again. (3) You may be too young still. Some guys don't develop the ability to reach orgasm and ejaculate until well into puberty. If you're an adult and have never been able to reach orgasm or ejaculate, seek an opinion from a professional such as a urologist. Back to home page