He won't let me do it because of that! He recently told me he would let me do it if he was wearing a condom. I don't understand how it would stay on with the movements I would be doing on him. Are there any other options we can try?
A small percentage of males have a strong aversion to getting semen (even their own) on their skin or on other things or people. For some, it's a manifestation of an obsessive-compulsive disorder – for instance, they're constantly washing their hands for fear of germs. Others use it as an excuse when they're afraid they won't be able to ejaculate with someone else masturbating them. Whatever the case, yes, you can masturbate your boyfriend with a condom. Ordinarily a condom is supposed to fit snug enough so that it won't slide off; if it's too loose, try one of the "snug-fitting" brands. Some guys like to masturbate with condoms that are larger and looser, by lubricating the inside and sliding the condom over the penis. As an alternative, perhaps you or he could hold a small paper cup in front of his penis when he ejaculates – then the semen will go into the cup rather than "all over."
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