Experience different orgasms through self-discipline.
All Thumb
This is good if you share a room or a bed and can't get to sleep. Lie on your side, grasp your shaft firmly with one hand, and use your thumb to lightly stroke the head, making circles around the urethral opening. Don't move the hand at all – just the thumb. Focus on controlling your breathing and keeping your body completely still. Maintain a steady speed and resist the urge to pump the shaft with the hand or to make the thumb go faster. If you start to produce Cowper's gland secretion, rub it onto the head, keeping the same speed and rhythm. You may relax the grip on the shaft from time to time to use one or more fingers with the thumb to stroke and squeeze the head in different ways, being careful not to speed up. Then return to the tight, stationary grip. If you increase the pressure, slow down the speed. You can also change from circular to a back and forward movement. Eventually each stroke will cause the penis to tremble as if you are plucking a guitar string. The temptation to speed up or to pump the shaft will be strong – but if you can maintain a slow, steady rhythm you will be rewarded with a long period of intense ecstasy as you hover on the edge of ejaculation. When you finally have your orgasm it will be long and powerful, leaving you completely drained and tingling all over.
The Motionless Squat
This one is definitely better if you aren't wearing any clothes. Squat down on the ground and spread your legs open about as far as is comfortable. Then, lube up your penis, get into your favorite grip, and go. The key is not to "hop" up and down, but rather to leave your legs and thighs as motionless as possible. Focus the movement on the shaft and the head of your penis instead. Try some different grips – for instance, put both thumbs on top of your penis and two fingers of each hand below. Just keep going until climax, but be sure to maintain the motionlessness in the thighs and legs during ejaculation, as this greatly enhances the effect.
The Controlled Ring
Make a ring with your thumb and index finger, and stroke only the glans (penis head). Do not touch any of the sensitive area behind the glans. Do this for as long as you can stand it. Then, with a firm grip, bring your thumb/finger "ring" over the top part of the shaft and stroke. The release/ relief is almost as good as orgasm – even though you haven't ejaculated yet. After the initial feeling of relief, repeat the process. Try to hold out as long as you can each time. You will finally get to the point where you will just want to ejaculate. Says the reader who sent in this technique: "Believe me, brothers, this is one fine way to peel your banana."
The Count-Up
Get an erection using lots of lube on both hands. With both hands in standard grip form, move one hand down the shaft, followed by the other hand. Then reverse: One hand goes up (toward the head) followed by the other. Repeat the down motions again, this time twice: one hand followed by the other, followed by the first, followed again by the second hand. Repeat the same with the "up" motions (alternating each hand twice). Then go back to the "down" motions, this time 3 strokes each. Then the "up" motions 3 times. Continue this process until you reach a count of 10. Start back at one, and repeat. Depending on the speed you choose, you can ejaculate quickly or after hours of this. If you tend to climax too quickly, use more of the "down" movements; to climax more quickly, use more "up" movements.
Lord of the Ring
If you like "slow torture"-type techniques, you may love this one. It's pretty easy to do but takes some explaining. First, get your erection going with some lube. When you have a good erection, cup your scrotum with the hand you normally don't masturbate with. Now, make a "ring" (like an "okay" sign) with the thumb and index finger of your other (masturbation) hand. Using a Backhand grip, wrap your thumb and index finger around the base of your penis as close to your scrotum as possible. Now you're good to go. Start by massaging your balls a couple of times with your first hand. Stop. Next, using the ring you made with your masturbation hand, begin twisting back and forth at the base of your shaft. (Do not grip your penis with the rest of your hand. Just twist with the "ring.") Keep twisting while *slowly* pulling the finger ring up along your shaft toward your head, traveling about one-quarter of an inch every few twists. Depending on your penis size, you should reach your corona (rim of the head) in 10 or more twists. Once there, pause and squeeze the "ring" tightly around your corona, and then drive the ring down your shaft like a plunger. When you reach the base, pause, massage your scrotum with your other hand, and start the whole thing all over again. Ideally you'll have a good, long session before you finally explode.
One Side Only
This is good for those who masturbate "dry" (without lube), but it also works with a powder lube such as talc or cornstarch. Keeping your dominant hand open, rub the underside of your erect penis (the side that faces the floor when you're standing up) with your palm and fingers. Keep doing that all the way until just before you reach orgasm. You will feel the urge to close your hand, as only one side of your penis is getting stimulated – but do not close your hand until you're about one second away from climaxing. When you finally close your hand, the pleasure you get will be immense, and you will ejaculate instantly. You may want to perform this technique slowly – make the session last at least 20 minutes – to get the full effect.
