I distinctly remember the first time I masturbated — it was after reading a book about puberty when I was 12. I was lying in bed and I had an erection. I didn't know about masturbation yet, but I did know about things like oral sex. For some reason, I thought, "I wonder what it feels like..." and tried, unsuccessfully, to get my penis into my mouth. Instead, I put saliva in my hand and put it on my erection — I thought of it as a simulation of my mouth. Before then, I had never realized how good it felt to touch my erection. For the first time, I just kept going and rubbing my erection, and I was glad I did! When I had the orgasm, I was incredibly surprised. I ran to the bathroom and read the puberty book to find out what happened to me. I wasn't sure if I'd had an orgasm, because I didn't ejaculate. I didn't ejaculate until two years later, but I soon found out this was normal — thanks to JackinWorld!
Ever since that day, masturbation has always been on my mind. When I was about 8 years old (going back a few years), a male friend and I had experimented a few times by touching each other's penises. Although we didn't know about masturbation and orgasm, I do remember it felt good. Even though he moved away a few years ago, I am sure I would talk to him about it if I saw him again.
A couple years after I started masturbating, a friend was sleeping over and we were looking at porn. This happened just after I had read JackinWorld for the first time, so I decided to visit the site with him. I was scared about how he would react to it, but he was cool. We read the site and found a section on male mutual masturbation (other people's experiences). That night we talked lots about it, and eventually masturbated by ourselves in bed. I am not gay, but I am curious about other males.
My first experience with a girl also involved mutual masturbation. I knew her from school, but we had also begun chatting on the Internet. One day, she brought up masturbation during a chat, and we totally got into it. We talked about it a lot, and it became normal for us to talk about it. One day we decided to go to a movie, and afterwards, she invited me to her place. We were watching TV and she was moving her bra around. When she saw me looking, she asked if it was cool with me. I said yes, and then she asked me if I had an erection. Then we got into talking about masturbation again. Both of us were a bit embarrassed. We then got under some covers and took off our clothes. We started masturbating, and then I asked if we could try it on each other. We did, and we had a great time doing it. We are still friends today, and we still talk openly about masturbation and sex in person and over the Net.
For the first few years, I masturbated on and off, a few times a week. I used the Five Finger grip at first, because at the time my penis was too small to use my whole fist. I masturbated mostly in the shower. When I was about 14, my masturbation life changed a lot! I was masturbating almost every day by that point. I also began masturbating in my bed most often instead of the shower. I started using the Fist as my main technique, as my penis had grew almost to the length it is now (6 3/4 inches). I also started to try other techniques, such as the Backhand and the Vagina, two of my favorites. I even tried anal stimulation, something I still do once in a while. I began experimenting with lubricants other than saliva (shampoo, Vaseline, etc.). Again I tried to perform oral sex on myself; again, I was unsuccessful.
Right now I have quite an interesting masturbation life. I get home early from school, about an hour before anyone else. I take this time to catch up on JackinWorld, look at pictures, and masturbate. If I don't end up doing it then, or I feel like masturbating again that night, I do one of two things: I masturbate in bed, or sometimes I take a hot tub (with my penis against the jets for most of the time). I still use the Fist, most often using spit as the lubricant. If I decide to masturbate in the shower, I often use anal stimulation and a lubricant such as Vaseline. If I am masturbating at the computer, I use the Fist with no lubricant. If I used lube, I'd destroy my keyboard every time I tried to type something in. It's hard enough aiming away from the keyboard when I ejaculate!
One of the more recent techniques I have tried is putting my penis in between two pillows. This feels extremely good in bed. I have yet to try a baggie with lube to make this feel even better, but as soon as I find time, I will. In the future I hope to improve my masturbation techniques, by trying lots more. One of my ultimate "fantasies" is to have a college roommate (male or female) who is cool about masturbation, and who might talk about it with me...or even more!
Do you find yourself masturbating more often during some seasons than others? Why?
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Against the jets
Gender:
Male