My masturbation story begins at about age 12. My parents were at work and I was all alone. I began to play with myself. I was just entering puberty, and the hormones were really flowing. I tried imagining what it would feel like to have oral sex. I then spit on my then-5-inch penis and began to rub up and down. It felt wonderful. I then felt like I had to pee, only it felt better. My hips started to buck and my head started to spin. I had my first orgasm and ejaculation. I've been hooked ever since.
After that experience, I explored better ways and methods. My favorite was the fist, done dry and as often as I could. Between the ages of 12 and 16, I bet I masturbated at least 15 times a week. It was a great release for me. It seemed like I began puberty before most of my classmates, so I felt like I was the kingpin of sexuality. I soon found out, though, that my friends were not as "limpless" as I thought. We would have sleepovers, and they always seemed to end with a masturbation session. I remember my first mutual masturbation experience. One of my best friends invited me over to his house for the night. We began by the sexual talk that most 14-year-olds would do. Before I knew it, my friend reached down and grabbed my fully erect penis. It felt wonderful. I had never been touched by another person. He began to masturbate me, and I returned the favor to him. We both ejaculated at about the same time. What a great time that was.
After that, we continued to have many more of those great times until we were about 16. I've always have been a supporter of abstinence at least until you've graduated from high school. So masturbation was even more important to me, to help me control my sexual drive. And let's face it, masturbation feels great. However, when I went to college, abstinence became a footnote — although masturbation didn't. I was still masturbating in college almost every day. I had the same roommate for 4 years, and we both masturbated, but at our own private convenience. We had a contest to see if we could "catch" each other masturbating, the loser having to buy the pizza and beer. I won.
Today, I am still single, and a middle-school history teacher. Due to my teaching experience, I have often been assigned to counseling jobs and also to help with sex ed for the guys. I often have to answer questions about puberty and masturbation, so this site has given me a little extra information. It is amazing the number of students who masturbate but are either ashamed or embarrassed to admit it. We still suffer from the Victorian era.
At age 39, I enjoy masturbation more than ever. I enjoy getting on JackinWorld and trying out "expert" techniques. I also enjoy reading stories and the Questions of the Week. I'm glad I finally joined JackInsider. Even though I am single, I enjoy experiences with the opposite sex. I am not gay; I just have no desire to get married. Masturbation, however, has really been an important part of my life. If my students only knew! The last two years have been a great experience for me. I am into some serious mental masturbation. Two nights ago, I had the most incredible "dry orgasm" of my life. I literally was screaming. So, I thought I would share with the readers my mental masturbation techniques. First of all, I am in search of the "ultimate" — ejaculation without physical stimulation. I have not yet been able to achieve this, but by trying, I am having multiple dry orgasms, nearly every single night. They range from soft, sighing orgasms, to hip bucking, nearly full-body, out-of-control orgasms. If after several dry orgasms I feel like I have no chance to ejaculate, I finish off by "fisting" my way home. The resulting ejaculating orgasm is mind-blowing, with lots of semen.
I come across mental masturbation on many Web sites, including JackinWorld. When I first read about it I was interested, so I began trying. It is certainly something that takes a lot of practice. But practice sure does pay off. Even though I haven't reached my goal yet, the orgasms I am achieving are wonderful. Here is how I approach a mental masturbation session: I like it dark, all alone, totally naked, lying on my back in my bed. I try to clear all of my thoughts, close my eyes, and let it happen. I begin to concentrate on my penis — how I think it should feel. I picture how it looks in my mind. I focus all my thoughts and energy on my penis, scrotum, testicles, perineum, and prostate. My body seems to just take over after that. My penis begins to swell, although not totally erect. The feeling running through my penis almost feels magical. My testicles begin to move, and the orgasms begin. It feels like nothing I've ever experienced before. I start moaning because it feels so wonderful. I maintain my thoughts that I mentioned earlier. My penis then becomes fully erect. My hips start bucking, though I'm not trying to make them do it. The feelings I have during these orgasms are nearly unexplainable. This continues on for about an hour, or longer. I usually can't handle it anymore and then I physically masturbate to orgasm. That final orgasm is unbelievable, too. I have much more semen than usual, and when I ejaculate I sometimes "shoot," even though I have always been a "dribbler" in the past. I may never reach my goal of no-hands ejaculation, but it's well worth the try. I'm not sure I recommend this to teenagers, because I think normal masturbation and experimenting is important to future sexual development. Besides, guys (and girls), physical masturbation is fun! You older guys, though — you need to check out this mental masturbation thing!
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