I thank JackinWorld for being an integral part of my masturbation life — there from the very beginning. I first masturbated to orgasm 6 years ago. As puberty was just starting, I found myself browsing the Internet searching for whatever information I could come across. At some site, somewhere, I found a link to JackinWorld. I was intrigued and diligently read the JackinHow-To section. I went downstairs to my room (by now everybody was asleep), stripped naked, and lay on my bed. I tried to follow the directions, pulling the skin on my penis back and forth. It felt good, so I just kept doing it until I ejaculated all over myself. The orgasm itself wasn't brilliant and it was short, but I was hooked. During the next week, I masturbated at every opportunity I could, learning the technique and getting better and better orgasms. Right after this, visible signs of puberty began. About a month after, I noticed my first pubic-hair growth. Masturbation was me growing from a boy to a man.
During my junior-high years, I must have masturbated at least once a day. Sometimes it was in the shower, sometimes in my room, and sometimes in front of the computer (isolated in an upstairs common room) late at night. There was a special novelty about it in those years; it was my little secret. I knew some other people my age did it and some didn't yet. It was still new, and I liked to experiment doing different things. I would try the different JackinExpert techniques and experiment with whatever crude lubes I could get my hands on at the time — usually Vaseline or lotion.
I didn't talk about it much with other kids, but it did come up every once in a while. I wasn't shy about the fact that I masturbated — in fact, I was a bit boastful and got a reputation for being the horny kid who masturbated a lot. Some other kids still didn't do it yet; others did but wouldn't admit it. In 8th grade, I taught a friend over the phone how to masturbate. I told him to just rub his penis up and down until it felt he was going to urinate, but to keep going and be prepared for a fun mess. He told me the next day that he had done it and that it was great. Soon, he was hooked too, and I was proud to have helped introduce someone to something so great.
One of the major changes to my masturbation habits came in high school. I had been left uncircumcised by my parents, a decision that I disagreed with. I always wanted to be like everybody else — I thought the circumcised penis looked cleaner, and I knew from my own experience with smegma that circumcised penises were cleaner. When I was 15, I had the courage to bring it up to my doctor at a physical. He advised against it, but he wrote me a referral to a urologist anyway. I was determined to get circumcised, and a few months later, I went under the knife. It wasn't as bad as people make it out to be — yeah, I walked a little funny for a few weeks afterward, and at first the head rubbing up against my boxers all the time bothered me. But through it all, I had a sense of excitement about my new penis. About 10 days after the operation (probably the longest time I've gone without masturbating), I lubed up with AquaLube, a water-based lube I got at a drugstore, and gently masturbated my newly circumcised penis. It was amazingly intense — one of the best orgasms I'd ever had. Over the next few weeks, as my penis healed, I quickly learned how to masturbate again, and things pretty much went back to normal. Whereas before I would masturbate by pumping the foreskin, to masturbate dry after the circumcision, I pump the remaining shaft skin (my circumcision is pretty tight, at my request, but there is still just enough loose skin to work with) while rubbing the head and especially the corona. Sometimes I lube up and just let my hand glide back and forth over my penis; while this provides a smooth and continuous source of pleasure building up, I find the orgasm a bit inadequate. Pulling on the shaft itself always gives me the most intense pleasure — so for the best sessions, I lube up but still pump the skin back and forth, giving me a slick and smooth ride up but a strong orgasm in the end. My sessions are usually either very brief (under 5 minutes) in the mornings or mid-day when I just need to relieve the tension, or very long and pleasurable (40 minutes to several hours) when I have the free time to browse all sorts of erotic material.
I've always been uninhibited about releasing my urge whenever I need to. When I feel the urge, I find a place as soon as I can to defuse the tension. I remember masturbating in a department store dressing room when I must have been only 12 or so. I've also masturbated in airplane lavatories, public restrooms of all sorts (including at church when I used to go), and more recently, in my car while driving when I just couldn't wait.
As a college student today, I still masturbate daily but with little forethought or afterthought. It's just part of my daily life and part of who I am. Sometimes I masturbate under the covers after my roommate has fallen asleep; often, I masturbate in the bathroom and shower.
I masturbate to all sorts of stimuli: sometimes with porn, often with other erotica, or sometimes just to the pleasure of masturbation itself. I have many different kinds of lube — silicone, oil, and water-based, and some sex toys, too — vibrators, an artificial vagina sleeve, a genital ring, and some anal toys. I have so many options now to make whatever kind of experience I want. I usually masturbate dry, pulling up and down what shaft skin I have left while rubbing the corona and penis head. Usually I rub the area right beneath the scrotum; sometimes, if I'm in the shower, I massage my anus, too. I always do these because I've learned over the years that they make my orgasms great.
A note on frequency: I've tried to cut down in a swap of quantity for quality. (Those orgasms are just so much better after not masturbating for a few days.) "Tried" is the operative word, because I always seem to end up masturbating anyway. I've pretty much given up; in the end, the orgasms are still great.
Reading what I've written here, it's already difficult to get my hand back to the keyboard just to finish typing. Masturbation is a beautiful thing — keep on masturbating!
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Variety of stimuli
Gender:
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