She is 18 and still won't touch herself. I want to get her involved so we can please each other. I want her to give me a handjob, and I want her to know how great masturbation is. Any suggestions as to how to show her it is natural, exciting, and fun?
- age 18, Wisconsin
Your girlfriend has some sexual hangups, which isn't uncommon. I would just recommend talking with her and taking it very slowly. Get her comfortable with seeing you naked, then with seeing your erect penis, then with touching it, then with watching you ejaculate, etc. Only time and experience will allow her to get over her hangups so she can share your enjoyment of masturbation – and learn a few ways she can pleasure herself, too.
Do you find yourself masturbating more often during some seasons than others? Why?
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