What can I do to speed up the process?
This may be an obvious answer, but try masturbating yourself until you're close (during which she can help you out by rubbing you somewhere, etc.). Then she can take over – hopefully you'll ejaculate before her hand cramps up. If not, work on yourself some more and try again.
What do you think about when you masturbate or have sex? Would you tell your significant other if they asked?
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My girlfriend likes to masturbate me, and believe you me, I love it too – but her hand cramps up because I take too long to ejaculate.
