But my girlfriend and I are talking about sex, and I am concerned I won't be able to "last long." I know I could masturbate beforehand, but chances are the situation won't permit that alternative. Any advice?
This may sound like a terrible idea, but one alternative is to save your sexual exploration until you're in a situation where you can take plenty of time, and then incorporate masturbation into your lovemaking. Teens are often very insecure about sharing masturbation "secrets" with their mates, but if you love each other and approach the situation carefully it will bring you closer together. Many adults who can handle the matter in a mature fashion incorporate masturbation into sex, and if you're mature about it you can, too. Fast, out-of-control sex may be exciting (for the minute or two it lasts), but it's usually very disappointing – especially for her. One ejaculation is not likely to finish you off for the day, so if you have lots of time you can spend the rest of it going slowly together.
Do you find yourself masturbating more often during some seasons than others? Why?
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