He told me to stop or get out. I know for a fact that he masturbates, and I think he told me to stop because he thought there was something wrong with it, even though I think we would both enjoy doing it in front of each other. What should I do?
- age 15, New York
You might have to respect the fact that he's uncomfortable about the idea. It sounds like he's your older brother, and the older a guy gets, the more uncomfortable he tends to get with the idea of fooling around with another guy. (That's because he's getting more and more societal pressure to have sex with girls, and more and more signals that fooling around with a guy is "gay" and therefore, for whatever reason, bad.)