I enjoy the feeling of dressing up like a woman and pretending to be one. I have no real interest in men, but I would love to be with a female while doing this. Does anyone else do this?
Your sexual interest in cross-dressing is probably much more common than you think. We've received lots of letters about masturbating with panties, bras, etc., as well as masturbating while wearing these items. It's harmless, although I caution you about getting too dependent on inanimate objects. Using them as toys to enhance the experience is one thing, but a full-blown fetish – where they're a requirement and you cannot experience pleasure without them – is another. This is true of pretty much any sexual toy, and a dependence on objects often gets in the way of healthy sexual relationships, requiring therapy. But as long as this kind of activity is the spice of your sex life and not the main dish, you should be fine.
Do you find yourself masturbating more often during some seasons than others? Why?
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