I do get sexually aroused and can get a partial erection, and I try to masturbate and it does feel good – but not like it should. I can do it for long periods of time and do get a lot of satisfaction. However, I cannot have an orgasm. I try so hard sometimes, and I get frustrated. I have been looking at JackinWorld and did not know that there were so many ways to masturbate. Do you have any insight to my problem?
Your question is a little beyond our scope of expertise – if you haven't already, you should discuss the concern with your neurologist and/or urologist. I am not surprised you cannot achieve orgasm if you're paralyzed below the waist – orgasm and ejaculation are very complicated mechanisms involving a lot of nerves and muscles of the pelvic region. It's possible, through a kind of physical therapy, that you could train your body to reach orgasm, but I just don't know how likely that might be. As I said, a physician would have a better idea. Good luck.
Do you find yourself masturbating more often during some seasons than others? Why?
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