As I get more and more excited, the pain increases and becomes so unbearable I have to stop without achieving orgasm. I haven't had sex since this began, and I'm worried that the next time I try to have sex, the same thing will happen and I'll have to stop. Do you have any idea what's wrong with me? Is this a permanent problem? I'm more than a little embarrassed asking my doctor or parents for help.
Tough! This is a serious concern, and if you want the problem to be solved, you need to consult a doctor about it. It could just be a matter of tension or something you're doing physically wrong that causes certain muscle groups to seize up when you get sexually excited. Or it could be something else. But if you're experiencing any kind of pain that's affecting your enjoyment of sexuality, there is one and only one thing to do about it: See a doctor.
What do you think about when you masturbate or have sex? Would you tell your significant other if they asked?
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I'm an 18-year-old guy. A few days ago, I started to get this headache – a horrible, pulsating ache on the back of my neck, to the left side at the base of my skull – whenever I tried to masturbate.
