The first time I "came" was after masturbating, not from a wet dream – although according to my sex education class, a wet dream was supposed to be my first ejaculation. I want to have a wet dream. I once withheld masturbation for two weeks in order to see if enough sexual energy could build up, so I would have a wet dream, but nothing happened. I just couldn't take it anymore, so I masturbated and shot the biggest load of my life. One of my friends masturbates as much as I do, but he still has wet dreams – once even three times in one night. What must I do in order to finally have the infamous "wet dream"?
- age 17, Oklahoma
Wet dreams (or nocturnal emissions) vary quite a bit from one person to the next. Personally, I, too, have never had a wet dream, but then again I masturbate frequently (as you've probably guessed). Masturbation tends to relieve the body's need to ejaculate, so you're less likely to have a wet dream if you masturbate often (or, in some cases, not so often). Your friend's body and brain are just put together in a way that causes a lot of wet dreams; there's probably no better explanation for it than that. Unfortunately, I don't know of any ways to induce wet dreams or to increase their frequency.
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