I've tried masturbating, but I just can't bring myself to orgasm. What am I doing wrong?

There seems to be a small percentage of males who have major problems masturbating to orgasm. This isn't a serious problem in itself, but it suggests you may have problems with completing intercourse later on, and I suggest you continue to work at it through masturbation. If you haven't seen them be sure to read (and re-read) the JackinHow-to section titled "But I can't ejaculate!", as well as the Mental Masturbation article in JackinLibrary.