When I tell him about it in the morning, he says he does not remember any of it, and he wonders if he has a problem. Could he truly masturbate in his sleep and never remember it?
Yes, certainly. There's a special relationship between a man's hands and his genitals. Because of the way our genitals are external, we learn to touch them for pleasure almost instinctively very early on – even unborn fetuses have been seen doing this in the womb. When we sleep, this near-automatic behavior tends to express itself, like talking in one's sleep. Even if he seems to really get into it and rub himself quite heavily, it's nothing to be worried about. And you certainly don't need to feel threatened by it – after all, he may well be dreaming about you while he does it.
Do you find yourself masturbating more often during some seasons than others? Why?
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